I agree with the concept of self-reliance to an extent. I do think it is important to support and believe in yourself which corresponds with Emerson's, "Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string." The difference between us is that I don't think that is the only way to go. I often rely on my friends and family for support.
The biggest difference between me and a transcendentalist is the belief that people are inherently good. It's not that I'm particularly pessimistic; I don't believe people are born good or bad. My beliefs align more with the "blank slate" theory. The basic idea is that we are all only born with so much, and how we are raised influences the type of person we become. This is why I found conflict with Emerson's line, "If you are true, but not in the same truth with me, cleave to your companions; I will seek my own...It is alike your interest, and mine, and all men's, however long we have dwelt in lies, to live in truth." He is essentially saying that if you don't agree with someone, each of you should just do your own thing. But what if that other person is doing something wrong? Not everyone is good.
Your post prompted me to say "oh!" out loud. I guess I too rely on my family and friends for quite a few things. I appreciate your counter that not all people can be inherently good. Its interesting. I may not agree, but I can certainly see where you are coming from and respect that.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I just want to say I really like this post! I never really thought of it from your point of view and I find myself agreeing with a lot that you've said. I've always just thought people are born with a little good in them, but I think that the enviroment you grow up in has a lot a big influence on the person you grow to be later in life.
ReplyDeleteI definetly agree. Although I love Emerson's concept of self-reliance I too rely on family and friends. Also, I completely get what your saying when you talk about the "blank slate" theory. All people are not good, and I too understand that influences and personal experiences are what make a person.
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