I agree with the concept of self-reliance to an extent. I do think it is important to support and believe in yourself which corresponds with Emerson's, "Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string." The difference between us is that I don't think that is the only way to go. I often rely on my friends and family for support.
The biggest difference between me and a transcendentalist is the belief that people are inherently good. It's not that I'm particularly pessimistic; I don't believe people are born good or bad. My beliefs align more with the "blank slate" theory. The basic idea is that we are all only born with so much, and how we are raised influences the type of person we become. This is why I found conflict with Emerson's line, "If you are true, but not in the same truth with me, cleave to your companions; I will seek my own...It is alike your interest, and mine, and all men's, however long we have dwelt in lies, to live in truth." He is essentially saying that if you don't agree with someone, each of you should just do your own thing. But what if that other person is doing something wrong? Not everyone is good.
